Archive | September, 2011

Welcome! Take a STAND.

12 Sep

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We are the first website dedicated to female real life superheroes!
Once a month we’ll be bringing you tips and information specifically geared toward helping you on your journey to making the world a safer place.

From strength training to serenity meditations to safer animal handling, we cover a veritable plethora of topics, designed to help you develop and maintain a balance in both your superhero and every-day life.

We believe that “real life superheroes” are people who dedicate themselves to doing good deeds, with or without masks. We are women just like you. We’re wives, we’re mothers, we’re sisters and aunts; we’re workers, we’re nurturers, we’re fighters. We struggle, we celebrate and we overcome. Most importantly, we support and we share.

The women who’ve created this site, and the women (and men) who contribute their insights have all come together in the spirit of progress, and in the hopes that this site will become another source of light for anyone still finding their way in the confusion that can sometimes be the world of female superheroism.

We might not have super powers, we might not be comic-book superheroes, but we strive to embrace their ideals, and we hope, by virtue of our actions, that something heroic, indeed – something super – can be accomplished.

Welcome.

Meet your opportunity to contribute.

12 Sep

This column is reserved for you, our readers. We’re looking for a few good women (or men) who have something useful to impart to our readers. Would you like to submit an article? Please click on our “contributing articles” link for details.

Happy writing!

Meet Miss Fit

12 Sep

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From Miss Fit’s Facebook page:

A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself. ~ Joseph Campbell

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Our favorite body-building super heroine is currently traveling while filming The Adventures of Miss Fit, but will also be contributing to STAND.

Meet Rock N Roll

12 Sep

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Hello,

My name is Rock N Roll and I’m a pacifist.

But let me ‘splain, Lucy. No, there is too much. Let me sum up:

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The absolute pacifist is a bad citizen; times come when force must be used to uphold right, justice and ideals. ~ Alfred North Whitehead

I am of the firm belief that disputes can and should be peacefully resolved. When they cannot be, I also believe in using force.

You wouldn’t know it from just looking at me, but I’ve got the equivalent of a giant Twinkie’s worth of unpleasant ghosts stored in my containment unit. Like many of you out there, a violent, unfortunate event was the impetus to my becoming an X-Alt, RLSH, etc. I don’t look back on it as something negative, however, as I’m sure I wouldn’t be who I am today had it not happened. And in the grand scheme of things, the ability to focus on this current moment without regretting the past or worrying about the future is a greater gift to take from that event than a lifetime filled with anger and bitterness, right? Right.

It’s in the spirit of this positive mindset that I’m offering my advice to you, dear reader, should you decide to take the proactive stance against becoming a victim of violent crime. And it’s my fervent hope that you’ve already taken that stance, since you’re reading a website dedicated to helping out female peacekeepers.

Who am I to be giving out basic self-defense tips?

First off, I’m a survivor who would rather heal others than hurt them. But after that, I’m a CMT, and a college grad who earned a couple of letters that have nothing to do with my current line of work, other than teaching me the importance of tenacity; I’m a musician and an author who’s published a book on females in the security industry, and most relevant to this column, I’m a martial arts instructor. I’m a co-founder of the California branch of the New York Initiative, and I’m here to help you learn to trust yourself.

Good health and happiness to you, and may you find this column to be a useful tool in your chosen path as a fellow peacekeeper!

Meet Moxie Gusto

12 Sep

My code-name is Moxie. I’m a concerned citizen living in north-west Louisiana. My husband, Cognito, and I have been working together as non-traditional responders and crime-fighters for nearly twenty years. Neither of us wears a costume or a mask, as the laws of our state forbid it. We are “average Joes” showing those around us that anyone can accomplish amazing things with just a little determination and a desire to do some good in the world.

The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines Moxie as: Noun. 1: energy, pep ; 2: courage, determination ; 3: know-how. Why did I give myself such an “arrogant” code- name? Everyone is made up of complex emotions, and we are driven by the emotions that we give power to. Moxie is a champion in the fight against apathy and diffidence, both within me and in those around me. Care and concern is a renewable resource, and the more I nurture it within myself, the more I see it blossom and grow in those I interact with.

At the heart of everything I do is the concept of simplicity. Simple living is about eliminating sources of stress and distraction from our lives so that we can focus on the things that are most important. To live simply is to live within your means, to use only the resources you need, and to act with purpose. Simple living helps make me a better wife, a better mother, and a better crime-fighter.

“I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are your greatest treasures.” Lao Tzu

“Simple in actions and in thoughts, you return to the source of being.” Lao Tzu

Meet Misery White

12 Sep

THROWING ROCKS by Misery White

I have been blessed with a charmed life. Not easy or ideal, but hidden in the ugliness of my experience were beautiful treasures.

When I was a young kid, I had a very pronounced stutter. The tallest in every class, I was nothing but knees and elbows. My family moved often, and I went to 6 different schools in 5 years before my 12th birthday. I felt ugly and awkward, was very bashful and quiet: I made an excellent target for bullies, literally. At one school in particular, a pack of kids threw rocks at me during recess and called me “Sasquatch.”

Sometimes the barrage of rocks felt like an avalanche and I came out bruised and a little emotionally broken, but instead of continually crawling away, hiding from the pain, I finally chose to STAND and take it. In fact I began to pick up the ugly rocks that pummeled me and instead of whipping them back at the source of who and/or what intended to hurt me, I kept the rocks and started mentally polishing them. I will keep picking them up and polishing them into beautiful stones that I can give to others as a reminder that we all have choices. We can choose to forgive and be free, and continue loving and living. If sharing my experiences can be a resource or comfort to others, than I have shared another polished stone and the pain was worth the reward.

In the months ahead, I will share my varied experiences as well as my passions (directly related in most cases): Causes that support survivors of Bullying, Child Abuse and Neglect, Loss of Loved Ones, Violence against Women and Children, Rape, Depression, Stalking and Crime against Women, as well as many others. I also support peacekeeping of all kinds, and anti-crime efforts. We will learn more about each other, and I encourage you to contact me regarding any topic, via private message if you like, on my Facebook page, or email.

I am a Christian. My relationship with Jesus has saved my life numerous times and helped me to get through some very rough days. I draw strength from my faith, and knowing that I’m somehow truly loved, horrible imperfections and all. Through all my own Misery and mistakes, my blackened heart has been made White again through His sacrifice and love for me. I am Misery White.

Meet The Handler

12 Sep

The Handler

First of all I want to congratulate you, the reader, for taking an interest in this line of “work”; helping others and trying somehow to be responsible in the making of this planet a better place to live. The worst epidemic that the human race is facing today is not Cancer, AIDS, or even the raising crime rates. The worst epidemic we face is apathy.

I am not suggesting that everybody out there take matters into their own hands, nor saying that we are all doomed, that the system has failed us, is keeping us all down, and humanity sucks. What I am trying to convey here is something very simple yet powerful. As long as there are people who care, somebody that is willing to put even a moment of their time to interact with the environment and change it for the better, we are moving onto a greater place.

I am a firm believer of the notion that what you resist, persists, and that the emotions and expectations you put out there end up becoming your reality. So in general, while I do not recommend ignoring the bad things out there, I recommend to prepare for them while emphasizing in the positive side of it. You get more done this way, and live a happier life with less burn outs.

I am not going to lie to you, this way of thinking takes time to develop. I’m constantly working on keeping myself in the sunny side of things. As most things, it takes discipline and training, but the pay off is incredible! It doesn’t take a happy childhood, a cushy life, or a drama free life to think this way. I can tell you by experience: I’m originally from a small Island in Spain, grew up in a third world country watching my dad work so much that he lost himself in it, looking over my shoulder every time I walked out of the house, getting away alive after a few close calls, living behind bars in your own home to wake up one night with a gun to your head anyways. Home invasion, car jacking and more grim situations were part of my childhood, and a big influence in why I ended up working with personal protection dogs. I also left my family back in Spain and came by myself to this country with $50 to my name. It is because what I have experienced, and the fact that I did not let that get me down, that I was able to put myself trough college, and today, I am the young female owner of a successful top class K9 facility in an industry dominated by man. There is little that scares me now!

Before I wrote this article very few people had a clue about my rough experiences growing up, and a handful know the details. This is not because I work hard on suppressing it, but because simply put, it is in the past, and I prefer to remember the good things instead. Growing up having a jungle as your back yard was the best! My love for animals was present since a very early age, I would get lost in the garden for hours and got scolded many times for feeding sugar to the ants. I had all kinds of pets, including a Capuchin monkey. I had the privilege of helping many wild animals that manage somehow to cross my path while injured, and the luck of having some kind of internal guidance on what to do because I swear, I have no idea how I knew at such an early age to do the things I did to get them better (nope, I did not have Google back then).

My hope by writing in S.T.A.N.D is to give you some tools for empowerment. My connection is strong with nature, and animals are my forte, my passion, so this is the area from where I will bring my expertise. I will be talking about personal protection dogs, their roles as defenders and their use in patrols, training, management, the bond between humans and animals, service and therapy dogs, rescue, capture and transportation of an animal in danger, pet first aid and emergency protocols, animal shelters, what you can do to help, and more. If you can think of anything that might be of interest for our community I welcome suggestions! Send me a message!

“The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated”-Mohandas Gandhi

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